So here we are, my first ‘blog’ post. To share or not to share? That is the question of this digital world. And yet, to share is to allow people to bear witness to the strength of Charlie’s love. It is to allow me to be lightened of the load of feeling as if I must hold this in, in a culture that is not overly accepting of displays of grief. It is to allow others, experiencing a similar journey to feel less alone in their own narrative.